A story on the local TV news station saddened me. Again. It seems to be happening an awful lot to me lately. Maybe I'm becoming an old, soft fool (stop snickering!!). But there just seems to be so many bad things to see and read about in the news. I'm sure that I don't have to delineate them for you. From Penn State to Syracuse to the economy, to the Middle East, we've all been barraged with a litany of gloom and doom stories. It's so bad that, for some religious fanatics, this is right in step with their prediction of The End of Days. I don't know about you, but it scares the shit out of me sometimes. But even more than frightened, I'm deeply saddened. Some of the things that I see out there are so wrong, yet so easily fixed.
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Tuesday, November 29, 2011
When You Think About It: Where Do We Cut?
A story on the local TV news station saddened me. Again. It seems to be happening an awful lot to me lately. Maybe I'm becoming an old, soft fool (stop snickering!!). But there just seems to be so many bad things to see and read about in the news. I'm sure that I don't have to delineate them for you. From Penn State to Syracuse to the economy, to the Middle East, we've all been barraged with a litany of gloom and doom stories. It's so bad that, for some religious fanatics, this is right in step with their prediction of The End of Days. I don't know about you, but it scares the shit out of me sometimes. But even more than frightened, I'm deeply saddened. Some of the things that I see out there are so wrong, yet so easily fixed.
Sunday, November 27, 2011
Social Commentary: Fool Me Once
So many topics, so little time. This has been my mantra, particularly as of late. My god, the Republican Presidential Candidates alone can anchor me to the keyboard for hours! It's just so EASY to find fault with them - all of them. It's so easy, in fact, that I've avoided paying them too much attention on the blog. Hell, you don't need me to point that out to you anyway. All one need do is LISTEN to them to realize that we're not talking about a particularly brainy bunch. And the few (one?) who can at least think his way out of a paper bag, like Newt Gingrich, have serious ethical issues. I try to avoid the obvious and make a real effort to prevent the repetition of topics. However, some topics, by their very nature as well as for their continuing relevance, bare revisiting. So it has been with the Occupy Wall St. (OWS) movement. For this blog, this seems to be a topic that, like it's protagonist, just won't seem to go away. As I have previously written, I've had more discussions relative to this topic then for any other. And they have been passionate on both sides.
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
A friend, whom I respect enormously, and I were having a discussion as to the existence of god. Simply put, he is a believer and I am not. He argues for god's presence in our lives. I cannot make that connection. I envy people of genuine faith, like him, but I have found no purchase there. His premise is that, ultimately, we all need to believe in something, some higher power. My response was that I certainly DO believe in something. I believe in honesty, integrity, freedom in all its forms, justice, and, of course, LOVE. And, perhaps, most importantly, I believe in me. I believe in my ability to see the right course and to pursue it - to always do the right thing. And I believe that this ability lies within all of us. We only need to turn our vision inward to see it.
Monday, November 21, 2011
Social Commentary: On UC Davis
First, I was shocked. Then I was stunned. Then, in turn, I was incredulous, angry, and outraged. Now, I am mostly just terribly sad. Students from the University of California-Davis were participating in an Occupy Wall Street organized protest on their campus, when about a dozen of them sat on a path leading to a nearby encampment associated with OWS that the campus police were ordered to dismantle. The students had locked their arms together and were making an effort to prevent the police from reaching their destination. From the video I saw, the students were making no violent moves or even shouting epithets towards the police. It appeared to me that they were practicing non-violent civil disobedience in their refusal to heed police orders to clear the path. Crowds on the grassy areas on both sides of the path were observing the interaction between the students and police. Police were in full riot gear and were lining the path, keeping these people back. One police officer, also in full riot gear, approached the sitting protesters. At first you don't notice that he has a large can of pepper spray in one of his hands. Then, suddenly, and completely without provocation, he raises his hand from his side and starts using that pepper spray - liberally! Walking slowly back and forth, the officer aims the spray directly into the faces of the students. Back and forth he walks, casually, cavalierly, spraying copious amounts of the orange -tinted liquid all over them. The students huddle more closely together and try their best to protect their eyes, noses, and mouths by ducking their heads into their laps. But it's no use. The officer is way to generous in the use of the pepper spray to escape. Gasps and screams can be heard coming from the crowd. The video ends after the officer makes 3 or 4 back and forth trips using the pepper spray, so we don't see what happens next. Newspaper accounts report that, after the spraying, the rest of the police moved in and using batons, separated the students and arrested them.
Outrage and condemnation was almost immediate. Thousands called for the resignation of the school's chancellor who called for the police action in the first place. In turn, the chancellor, Linda Katehi, expressed "outrage" and called for an immediate investigation. Two of the UC-Davis police officers involved with the incident were put on paid administrative leave.
Here are a few things that, once I got beyond the outrage, saddened me to the point of depression. First, the apparently cavalier attitude of the policeman who sprayed these people was SHOCKING. He can be seen in the video slowly and deliberately pacing back and forth, waving his hand and controlling the spray as if he were painting the door of his car!! I saw no expression of fear or anxiety on his face at all. There was no grimace of clenched teeth. There was more of a calm, certainty of expression. WTF?! They were non-violent and he met them with EXTREME violence. If Gandhi had a grave he would be rolling over in it right now. From my observation (and I acknowledge that it's one thing to observe and another to actually be involved), there was ABSOLUTELY NO RATIONAL REASON for that policeman to act the way he did. NONE. It was excessive force. PERIOD. It leaves one wondering what type of person could be so callous as to show absolutely no emotion while causing such grievous harm.
This leads me to a second reason for my depression; there are those who will defend the policeman's actions - no matter what. They will say that the students were participating in an illegal activity and were warned repeatedly to disperse (they were). They will say if you do the crime then you have to do the time. And I agree with this on some levels. If you break the law you MUST be prepared to suffer the consequences. However, it's the DEGREE of the consequences that I take exception to. There is no way to justify the use of this much force in this situation. These young people (and in reality that's what they were) were brutalized and there is no way to palliate that. Still, there are those will say they got what they deserved. Sad.
This leads me to my last point; it shocks and saddens me to see the degree at which some people fear and loathe the OWS movement and everything and everyone associated with it. It's not just that they disagree with the movement's goals and objectives, they HATE everything about it and are willing to say it loudly and clearly. They use epithets claiming the people associated with it are less then human. And this hate bredes anger, fear, and, inevitably, violence - the type of violence we witnessed at UC-Davis. It's easier to brutalize people when we dehumanize them. We see it more and more everyday. Look, I don't agree with everything that OWS does or stands for. But, overall, I see the message as positive and, more importantly, NECESSARY. Only the so-called 1% fear the change because it would disrupt their nearly perfect worlds. So, I understand their fear and loathing. It's the other part of the 99% that's not hearing the message that I don't understand. These people should be lauded for the making the effort to change the world for OUR benefit. Are they flawed in their methods? Yes. But the bigger question we should ask is this: are they ultimately RIGHT?
You must be the change you want to see in the world . . . Gandhi.
Friday, November 18, 2011
Photo Gallery of the Day: The latest from OWS "Day of Action"
Thursday, November 17, 2011
Social Commentary: OWS Continues
Few blog entries have elicited more response or created more controversy then the ones I posted concerning the protests under the umbrella of the Occupy Wall Street (OWS) movement. Using lower Manhattan's Zuccotti Park as its base of operations, OWS grew from a relatively small group protesting corporate greed, particular as it is displayed on Wall St., to an international phenomenon with "franchises" in major cities in this country and around the world. Although mostly non-violent, OWS has met with institutional opposition in virtually every city it has surfaced. Most cities showed limited tolerance and very little patience for the tactics of OWS. Oakland, Ca. was particularly brutal in its crackdown of the OWS protests there. Even New York, which largely supported OWS's First Amendment Rights, lost patience and have recently enforced local ordinances that have made it more difficult for OWS to continue in its present form and location at Zuccotti Park.
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Photo Gallery of the Day: The latest from OWS
Saturday, November 12, 2011
Contribution by Karen Ellis - A True Story
Photo by Karen Ellis of one of the world's oldest living things. It is a survivor.
The Sandusky/PSU pedophilia scandal has dredged up a lot of unpleasant memories for me.
I thought it might be cathartic to write about it.
My first encounter with a predator was when I was fourteen.
I worked in the bakery department of a local deli every Saturday along with Marvin, age 40. While I was standing at the counter he would stand behind me and would rub up against me. Back then I was naive and didn't realize what he was REALLY doing and that it was VERY inappropriate.
He would block my way so I had to squeeze past him and he would try to touch my breasts. Standing beside me, he would lean over and try to nibble on my ear. This was a common occurrence not only with me but with another young female who worked there weekdays after school. Marvin was a real pervert.
Over the months, his behavior kept escalating. One day he followed me into the walk-in refrigerator. I had the foresight to take a large bread knife with me and when he got close, I turned around and raised the knife, telling him if he ever touched me again, I would "cut it off."
After that incident, I complained to the owner, who raised his voice to me and said, "How dare you accuse Marvin of doing things like that! He is a married man with three daughters."
Yeah, blame the victim. Stick up for the pedophile.
That was my last day working there.
Fast forward 20 years. I was involved in a volunteer organization, my partner was a peewee football coach—even through he didn't have any young children. He seemed like a very nice, caring guy from what I could tell. I was on duty with him every week for three years.
The coach was quite persistent about asking me if my 8-year-old wanted to play football. He kept saying how great it would be for my son since I was a single parent. He would "take my son under his wing." "I'll pick him up at your house, so you didn't have to worry about him getting to and from practice and the games." "He's a big kid for his age and he would be a great player."
I thought it might be a good opportunity and I asked my son if he wanted to join. He told me, "No, I hate football!"
Little did I know the coach was recruiting for MORE than the peewee football team.
A couple of years later, this man was caught abusing a boy my son's age who was on his team. He had given the kid a dirt bike and other expensive gifts. When the boy's mother questioned where the dirt bike came from, the ugly truth finally came out.
After the allegations surfaced, the pedophile disappeared and was never prosecuted.
When I learned about this pervert assaulting that boy, I got really upset, thinking I had come so, so close to having a pedophile ruin my son's life.
I recently checked the national sex offender registry and these two predators are not registered, so they obviously have never been caught. I wonder how many kids' lives they have destroyed. So tragic.
My personal experience taught me very valuable lessons—you are your own best advocate and you don't have to take any shit from anyone.
My son not being put in that situation was just plain luck. We were lucky that he just hated football.