Today's MOZEN: The Joke Was on Me

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In light of the recent spate of anti-Semitic attacks in and around the NY Metropolitan area, I thought of relating a story from my youth on how I was taught to respect EVERYONE.

I must have been about 11 or 12 years-old. My mother and our next door neighbor were in the kitchen of our home making small talk. I listened patiently to their banter and, at one point, I thought that I would contribute to the conversation by telling them a joke I had heard at school that day. I broke in during a lull and said, "would you like to hear a funny joke I learned today?" My mom replied, "sure Frankie, we love jokes". The joke itself was in 2 parts - first, a question - then, the answer - just 2, simple sentences. So, I asked the question and waited patiently for the answer. When my mother and friend could not fathom the answer, they asked, "OK, we don't know. Why don't you tell us?" So, I did.

Now, even after all these years, AND, despite the fact that I was only a child, I'm proud to say that I'm STILL too embarrassed to even repeat the actual joke. Let me just say that it was anti-Semitic at its very core. But, of course, at that age, I didn't even know what that meant.

Well, my mother and her friend's response educated me -IMMEDIATELY.

Instead of the belly laughs I was expecting, my joke was met instantly with stone-cold silence. Then, my mother said sternly, "Frankie, that's not funny AT ALL. In fact, it's offensive." When I looked to my mother's friend for a possible reprieve, she was also shaking her head in a negative fashion. My mother continued, "making fun of ANY ethnic group is NEVER acceptable in this house, Frankie, and NEVER will be. Do you UNDERSTAND?"

I hung my head in shame while nodding in acceptance at the same time. And, now, even 50 years later, I can vividly remember the embarrassment I experienced at that moment. Stella's message had its desired effect. It was one also shared by my father. From that day forward I have always done my best to eschew jokes and slogans that are not only offensive by their nature, but harbor hidden prejudices and stereotypes.

It was a message well learned and one that not only ALL parents, but ALL adults, should teach their children. The world would be a better place if they did . . . 

Today's MOZEN: The "Rules" of War

Edward Gallagher. Photo USA Today

The SEAL, Edward Gallagher, US Navy Chief Petty Officer and decorated veteran, was acquitted in July, 2019 of multiple charges in the murder of a teenage ISIS fighter. However, he was found guilty of violating military law by posing for photos with the body of that ISIS fighter. In a highly controversial move, President Trump reversed the military court's decision and ordered Gallagher's rank and pay reinstated claiming that we "must protect America's warriors." The Department of the Navy and many veterans were outraged by the President's move claiming that it would destroy the discipline and Honor Code used by our military (and, most of the world's, too). Secretary of the Navy, Richard Spencer was actually dismissed by Mr. Trump for his vehement criticism of the affair.

CPO Gallagher and SEAL team 7 pose with the body of ISIS fighter

Well, CPO Gallagher is back in the news again - and, it ain't good.

Confidential video obtained by the NY Times shows previously unreleased testimony of members of Gallagher's own SEAL team 7 who call him things like toxic, a psychopath, and evil. In fact, it becomes apparent that they were actually afraid of him - his own men! It contradicts the testimony made by some of the men at the trial, suggesting that they were ultimately intimated into lying for Gallagher. 

William T. Sherman

Even though I have never experienced combat, I have always been fascinated by how soldiers react under the extreme distress of war and have studied it closely. And, I was always most taken by the words of famous Civil War general and proponent of Total War, William T. Sherman: "war is cruelty. There is no use trying to reform it. The crueler it is, the sooner it will be over." In other words, the only rule of war is to end it, i.e. victory or death. The Japanese lived this in their warrior code known as Bushido. Simply put, they chose death over the dishonor of surrender. In the vicious WWII Battle of Iwo Jima, only about 1,100 men out of a force of 22,000 Japanese survived. It is also why they could be so brutal on prisoners - they had no respect or tolerance for those who surrendered rather than fought to the death.

US Marine with the corpse of a Japanese soldier, Iwo Jima

Now, this post is not to judge. Having not experienced combat directly I have absolutely no right to. But, I want to understand. Therefore, I have to rely on the experience of those who have and ask them, can there be rules when the only options are win or die? Was Sherman right when he said "the crueler it is, the sooner it will be over?" Would we be more likely to avoid war if we lived by that credo?

This is a theme that has been explored by many films including The Bridge Over the River Kwai  when the Japanese prison camp commander smacks the leader of the British prisoners in the face with a copy of The Geneva Convention (a book delineating the rules of war) while saying, "this is WAR. Don't speak to me of rules". Or, Apocalypse Now when the main character, Colonel Kurtz, speaks with admiration towards the cruelty exhibited by the Viet Cong.

So, I would like to ask all those who have directly experienced the horrors of war and combat for their feelings on this subject: ARE THEY RIGHT? Are men like CPO Gallagher truly wrong under the circumstances? Are they just dealing with the ultimately reality of win or die? Are we being delusional when we limit war? Or, is that just the ultimate oxymoron? I would like to understand.

F LoBuono

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Today's MOZEN: Ollie, The Love Machine

Words and photos by F LoBuono

The Holidays can mean different things to different people. And, I'm not talking about culture or religion. Rather, I mean it from an emotional perspective.

For most, the Holidays are a joyful time, full of family, food, fun, and, of course, presents. However, for others it is a difficult period, replete with loss and loneliness. Instead of yearning for it to come, they can't wait for it to be over. I'm pretty sure that applies to some whom are reading this post. Or, we know someone effected in that way.

Personally, I have felt both. I have been overjoyed to spend quality time with family and friends. But, I have also been stung by the angst of having spent (for various reasons) some holidays alone. So, I often ponder what we can do to alleviate that feeling in ourselves and others.

And, I may have found a possible solution.

This past Christmas day, I had the good fortune to spend a lovely afternoon with most of my family at my cousin's place in New Rochelle, NY. Where we used to get together frequently, as we aged, family gatherings have become fewer and further in between. So, it was indeed a pleasure to be there.

When I arrived at my cousin's, virtually the entire family was already there. However, I noticed that my cousin's husband and their little dog, Ollie, were missing. When I inquired as to why, my cousin told me that they were just out for a walk and would be back shortly. Surely, after a few minutes, they returned.

Ollie and Stella

As soon as the door opened, Ollie, the teacup Yorkie, who weighs all of about 2 or 3 lbs., sprang into action. With his little stub of a tail wagging at 100 mph, he tore into the house with an infectious enthusiasm. He approached EVERY single person in the home, kissing everyone and wagging his entire body just to give, and get, some loving. He didn't care if you were man or woman, old or young, he was going to give you some love and affection and, in return, receive the same. At one point, he even jumped into my 96 year-old mother's lap to kiss her face. She squealed with delight.

Ollie and Stella

After about 10 minutes he settled down a bit to get into the serious business of mooching the pre-dinner appetizers we were all enjoying. But, he made me realize that whatever we give to life is what we get back. So, when we have a chance to share love we should do so with reckless abandon. As a little 3 lbs. dog demonstrated, the love you take is equal to the love you make.

So, when you're feeling down, don't dwell on it. Get up. Get that tail wagging again and spread the love. You won't regret it.

Thanks for reminding us, Ollie!

Today's MOZEN: Live in the Light

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Recently, in addition to decorating a small Christmas tree, I lit my first Menorah for Chanukah (aka Hanukkah). Now, this might not be a big deal to most people, but it certainly is for me, and for two reasons:

1. I'm not Jewish
2. I'm not particularly religious

I was raised a Roman Catholic and even attended Parochial school for 9 years (K-8th grade). And, I was actively involved in that religion for most of that time, even serving as an Altar Boy for many years. So, I am well versed in the teachings of the Catholic Church. However, I have not practiced that form of religion (or, ANY for that matter) for most of my adult life.

The whole concept of a single, omnipotent being (a white-bearded man at that) pulling the strings for the entire universe just didn't square with me anymore. The idea of divinity, as practiced by the great religions, did not sit well with me, either. WHY must there be a Supreme Being? Isn't it enough that things simply are? The ritual and dogma became completely implausible for my rational mind. In fact, it was even more than that. The doctrine became so thick with preposterous tenets as to completely obscure what is the simplest of messages - and, one that I live by: LOVE conquers all. It is the most powerful force in the Universe. Without it, society would collapse and left to his own devices, man would perish, too. But, with LOVE anything is possible. This, I believe, is meant by the Biblical prophecy of The Word Made Flesh, i.e. the coming of The Christ.

Therefore, I keep it simple.

So, why then would I choose symbols so clearly associated with 2 of the world's great religions: A Christmas tree for Christianity and a Menorah for Judaism?

Because they symbolize the things that ARE important to me - LOVE and LIGHT.

Chanukah, also known as the Festival of Lights, commemorates the Jewish victory over the Syrians in Judea around the year 168 BC. In order to celebrate their triumph, Judah Maccabee, the leader of the Jewish revolt, ordered the Holy Temple to be rebuilt and an oil lamp lit to consecrate the altar. Even though the lamp had only enough oil to provide light for one day, it burned for 8 - hence the reference to light overcoming the darkness. The eight candle Menorah symbolizes this so-called miracle.

However, I don't need to know why the lamp burned for 8 days instead of 1. I'll leave that to the mystics and clerics. What I do relate to is the metaphor of adding more light to a dark world. The Jews were under the yoke of oppression, i.e. the blackness of tyranny. Freedom, then, is represented by the light, even if created by just a single lamp, that shines in the hearts of men.

So, now, I light a Menorah.

Decorating a Christmas tree is a Nordic tradition that has become the universal way for Christians to celebrate the birth of Jesus, the Christ. For true believers, it is the fulfillment of prophecy. God's only Son will be sent to the world to rid us of Original Sin (whatever that is). And, this is where I get lost in the dogma: there is the Trinity, the Virgin birth, Herod and the Innocents, and so on so forth. The tale has become so steeped in religious doctrine that it, again, fouls the message - The Christ, a.k.a. The Prince of Peace was sent to be a beacon, a light to a dark and violent world. Whether or not he was divine is irrelevant to me. It's the MESSAGE he brought that counts:

PEACE ON EARTH. GOOD WILL TO ALL MANKIND.

It couldn't be more simple. Let's keep it that way and simply live in the light of love.

Today's MOZEN: The Words ARE The Man

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A familiar tactic employed by Trump supporters in defending him is to say something like, "well, I don't really like what he says, but I do like what he does?"

Oh, really?

That has to be one of the lamest excuses that I've ever heard. The two things cannot be separated! He IS what he SAYS. His language is course, bombastic, mendacious, misogynistic, antagonistic, bilious, bellicose, and imbecilic. And, so is he.

In the past, with rare exception (think George W. Bush to name one) we have relied on our President's words to not only sooth and unite us, but inspire us, as well. In fact, their words can become immortal. Who can forget JFK's "think not what you Country can do for you, but what you can do for your Country" or, Lincoln's Gettysburg Address? From Mr. Trump we got covfefe, Nambia, Two Corinthians, and many more malapropisms.

It might be funny if they were not coming from the Leader of the Free World.

Besides, what has he REALLY done to improve our lives and strengthen our Republic?

Let's see - North Korea is back to firing missiles. Iran is increasing their nuclear capacity. Children are being separated from their families at the border. Aid for the poor, including Food Stamps, has been eliminated or curtailed. The National deficit has ballooned. LBGT rights have been limited. Veterans have been deported. Coal has not returned. Manufacturing is down. The trade war with China has been disastrous so far. Farms are foreclosing. Russia is more powerful than ever. Our greatest allies have been insulted. NATO has been weakened. White Nationalism is on the rise. And, the number of hate crimes has risen significantly.

Just to be fair, unemployment numbers are at an all-time low and many consider the economy to be robust. However, some economists would say that this success is in spite of Mr. Trump, not because of him. So, if money is your best measure of success, then, by all means, continue to support him. However, if money does not define you, use YOUR words, SPEAK OUT, STAND UP, BE COUNTED and say NO to Tyranny.

Today's MOZEN: The Day of Reckoning

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Donald J. Trump, the duly elected 45th President of the United States, has been impeached.

Yes, I said the duly elected President - because that is a fact.

Under our system of government, he was the legitimate winner. 

However, he was NOT elected by the will of the people. He failed to reach that bar by nearly 3 million votes (*2,868,686 to be exact), the margin of deficit of those cast for his opponent, Hillary Clinton. He was elected by a quirk in our system known as The Electoral College. Again, this is a matter of fact.

Therefore, the Republican argument in his defense, that the Democratic inspired impeachment is subverting THE WILL OF THE PEOPLE, is simply BULL SHIT. He was NOT elected by The People. He was elected by The System. And, the numbers are staring them right in the face - nearly 3 million of them.

Donald J. Trump has been impeached because he flaunts the law, as he did in his nefarious dealings with Ukraine, and then dares you to do something about it, as in Contempt of Congress. He bullies and blusters his way to get whatever he wants, attacking all who stand in his way. And, the spineless Republicans who so blindly support him are intimidated by these tactics. Their shameless cowardice is now on display for the entire Country (and, world) to see.

But, there are still enough people in this Country, including those in power, who will stand against this insolent, pompous fool, and for OUR Constitution.

Yes, the WILL OF THE PEOPLE will be honored and the RULE OF LAW will be preserved.

The Day of Reckoning is upon us.

We shall serve no king . . . 

*2016 United States presidential election

Running mate	Mike Pence	Tim Kaine
Electoral vote	304	227
States carried	30 + ME-02	20 + DC
Popular vote	62,984,828	65,853,514
Percentage	46.1%	48.2%

Today's MOZEN: Graceless

Photo: Vox

GRACE:

noun

elegance or beauty of form, manner, motion, or action:We watched her skate with effortless grace across the ice.

a pleasing or attractive quality or endowment:He lacked the manly graces.

favor or goodwill.

a manifestation of favor, especially by a superior:It was only through the dean's grace that I wasn't expelled from school.

When people ask me why I am so opposed to our current President and his Administration, I tell them that it has gone well beyond politics. And, my reasoning is pretty simple. I would NEVER support a man so lacking in ANY of those qualities as defined by the word, grace. And, I am shocked and angry that despite this fact, many still do. Perhaps, if that rare person who actually reads my post and supports him actually exists, they can educate me as to what qualities they see in the man to foster their admiration. Thanks. 

F LoBuono

Today's MOZEN: ENOUGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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If you are easily insulted by vulgar language, you may want to avoid this post. Because I have something to say - again. And, I'm going to be blunt, direct, and vulgar. Perhaps, if I scream it loudly and filthy enough, it may make a difference. However, in our Country's current climate, I doubt it. But, it must be said anyway.

FUCK GOD DAMNED POLITICS. I DON'T GIVE A SHIT WHAT POLITICIAN FROM WHAT PARTY RUNS THIS COUNTRY. WHAT I WANT IS A DECENT HUMAN BEING TO LEAD US.

The debate on the Articles of Impeachment being drafted against President Donald J. Trump continues well into this Thursday night. And, it keeps going around in circles with the Democrats insisting they have the evidence to support impeachment while the Republicans counter that they have no such thing.

And, around and around it goes.

What is so distressing to me is that the GOP steadfastly supports a man who is simply a terrible human being. And, there IS evidence of that. One just need read Mr. Trump's daily Twitter feed to see it. Every single day brings a new adventure in childish, mean-spirited bullshit.

Instead of celebrating the remarkable accomplishments of 16 year-old Greta Thunberg who was named as Time's 2019 Person of the Year today, the 73 year-old President mocked her with this gem:

So ridiculous. Greta must work on her Anger Management problem, then go to a good old fashioned movie with a friend! Chill Greta, Chill!

Are you fucking kidding me??? What kind of petty, jealous, immature asshole would do such a thing to a young person who has done everything in her power to save the environment in which she must grow into?

I'll tell you what kind - a bilious, bellicose, bulbous, buffoon does. An immature asshole does. A loser of a schoolyard bully does. Chill? Chill? Go fuck yourself you selfish, fat pig (sorry to insult pigs).

BBC

And, THIS is the man the GOP has chosen to support with unfailing loyalty? To LEAD our Country? Really? What the fuck?! Open your goddamned eyes and save your souls (AND, THE COUNTRY) before it IS too late.

Fuck him - and, fuck you if you still support this fool.

SHIT. . . 

Today's MOZEN: Absolute Corruption

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This is all you need to know to understand why Donald J. Trump, the 45 President of the United States, will be impeached in The People's House, i.e The United States House of Representatives before Christmas, 2019:

Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.*


Even if it ultimate fails in the Senate, an impeachment must be done to send a very clear message that NO ONE is above the law. It is our Representatives' honor-bound duty to protect us from those corrupted absolutely, i.e. The President and his minions. Fortunately, the majority of Democrats have indicated they will do their DUTY and precede with it.

Regrettably, the Republicans control the Senate and have chosen Party over Country and, therefore, it will die there. However, history will not treat those Senators kindly. They looked away when they should have been staring at wanton corruption right in the eyes. Perhaps, the GOP is truly blind. Or, have they simply sold their souls?


*Between 1837 and 1869 he was known as Sir John Dalberg-Acton, 8th Baronet. He is perhaps best known for the remark, "Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Great men are almost always bad men...", which he made in a letter to an Anglican bishop.

Today's MOZEN: Sic Semper Tyrannis

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Listen and listen good. Outside of the very little I learned about politics in a high school civics class, I don't know a damned thing about it - except that it appears to be a dirty business. So, I'll not comment on the state of the political turmoil that the Trump Administration and the lackey Republicans who cower in his presence seem to have inflicted upon this Country.

However, I do believe that I have a good understanding of human decency. And, I see NONE of it in Mr. Trump, his administration, his party (the GOP) or ANY of his family or friends.

NONE.

What I see is a bully, a braggart, and a man obsessed with his own image. I see someone who is a phony in every sense of the word - from the way he lies about his business acumen, his education, and his wealth, to his ridiculously dyed pompadour hair and orange skin glow.

And, just as deplorable, if not more so, are the sycophants in the Republican party whose blind allegiance give Mr. Trump the license to continue his boorish behavior. SHAME ON THEM - ALL OF THEM.

How anyone who supports him got past his mocking of a disabled reporter during the campaign (and, despite their protestations that "he didn't really") and still elected him President is beyond my comprehension - unless the explanation is that you're as twisted as he is.

So, screw the politics involved with Impeaching him - it's beyond my understanding. What is not hard for me to fathom is that allowing his unabashed assault on decency and THE RULE OF LAW to go unchecked will give him a title that is (or SHOULD BE) anathema to ALL Americans - King.

SIC SEMPER TYRANNIS - DEATH TO ALL TYRANTS 

IMPEACHMENT - NOW!

Today's MOSTLY TRUE STORY: Death Takes a Stroll.

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It was a perfect night for a walk - yeah, perfectly miserable. We were in the midst of a winter Nor'easter. You know, the ones where first it rains, then it snows, then it sleets, and than it does all three at the same time. In other words - not your night for a leisurely stroll into town.

But, I've never been one to let a little shitty weather keep me from a nice sojourn - especially once cabin fever sets it. And, I had a bad case of it. I actually had the last two days off and, for me and my insane work schedule, that's like an extended vacation. I needed to move.

So, I got the foul weather gear out and girded myself for a schlep downtown. I planted the image in my brain of a nice whiskey in a warm tavern at the end of my journey for any extra incentive that I might require.

With a stiff, northern, gale-force wind in my face, pelted by ice crystals, I kept my head down and trudged my way to the promised land. I had traveled about 3 or 4 blocks to the edge of town when my eye caught a figure coming in the opposite direction and across the street. When I looked more closely I had to do the proverbial double-take. It was a tall, thin figure, hooded, and covered in a full-length, black cape. He was also wearing a ghastly mask of a pure white punctuated by black as coal eyes and a mouth frozen in a scream. It was as if Death was taking a leisurely stroll.

When the figure noticed that I was watching, he extended his arm and hand and gave me a friendly wave, saying nothing. Then, never breaking stride, he continued on his way and, me, mine. All in a sojourn to my town - Nyack, NY. Doesn't surprise me at all. . . 

WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT IT: Greed and Gluttony - American Values

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BLACK FRIDAY is to greed what the NATHAN'S FAMOUS HOT DOG EATING CONTEST is to gluttony.

Unfortunately, both of these co-called American traditions show us at our worst.

Black Friday is an orgy of unfettered consumerism. People will wait for hours, often in the cold or other inclement weather, to shop until they drop. And, it is not unusual for virtual stampedes of shoppers clawing and climbing over one another when a store opens, just to make sure that don't miss out on a bargain. What's so ironic about it is that, with a little searching, most of those discounts can be had in other stores on other days. But, with the guileless help of the local media, the day is hyped as a SHOPPING DAY LIKE NO OTHER.

Nathan's Famous Hot Dog Eating Contest, which takes place every 4th of July at the site of the original Nathan's, Coney Island, is a Bacchanalian excess of consumption. Contestants ram hot dog after hot dog into their mouths within a time limit to see who can shove the most tube steaks down their gullets, often spewing the half-chewed contents out of their noses and other orifices. And, the crowd roars!

Many take no issue with these events. Some Black Friday shoppers actually look forward to the competition of shopping in such an aggressive environment. Others, often people of limited means, see it as their only opportunity to purchase high-end items that they would not normally be able to afford. And, the hot dog eating contest has become so popular that it is actually carried live by ESPN to millions of viewers watching along with the thousands actually in attendance.

Perhaps, it is really harmless. I live by the credo of to each their own. But, WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT IT, it may be an indication of something a little more insidious - that at the core of American values lie two that, perhaps, we shouldn't be so proud of: GREED and GLUTTONY.

Today's MOSTLY TRUE SHORT STORY: A Thanksgiving Day Memory.

All words and photos: F LoBuono

A few years ago I got lucky and drew a plum assignment: Cover the Annual Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade for CBS News. Making the assignment even more attractive to me was that I was to shoot B-roll, i.e. the video that would be used to support the narrative of the report. That meant I would not be tethered to a fixed "live" position but, rather freelance along the entire parade route. This allowed me a great deal of creative freedom to show the parade as I was seeing it. And, because of the access granted to me by the NYPD to complete my assignment, I had virtual carte blanche to roam wherever I liked.

And, it was awesome!

I could walk between the handlers, who were doing their best in keeping the huge balloons tethered to Central Park West, and give the unusual perspective of having the massive images fly right over the top. They are so gigantic that it was almost frigthening to be so close to them.

Well, I was executing one of those shots when disaster almost struck. I was on one knee and arched my back to follow the movement of the balloon as it passed directly overhead. I completed the shot and began to stand to get my next shot when I realized that my camera was being pulled out of my hands - and, I couldn't understand why. It was then that I realized it was happening because one of the ropes between a handler and the balloon had caught the eye piece of my camera and was taking it along with them! I recovered just in time to untangle it before it was gone forever.

I was relieved to find their was no damage to my camera and began shooting again. There was plenty of parade left. I guess that some days, you just get lucky. I sure did that Thanksgiving many years ago.

Yes - there is always something to be grateful for!

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

Today's MOZEN: The Door to the Soul

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They say that the eyes are the windows to a person's soul. When we look deeply into another living creature's eyes (and, that includes animals) we see the full range of emotion that all sentient beings are capable of of. We can sense happiness, fear, anger, joy, intelligence, ignorance, assurance, doubt, wisdom, love, empathy, sorrow, greed, desire, remorse, despair, ecstasy, warmth, grief, and virtually every other feeling that makes one, well, ALIVE. When we are happy, our eyes shine. And, when we are without inner life, that is also reflected. In fact, when the eyes lack the expression of these emotions we often refer to them as dead -  literally. So, when we really want to know what someone is feeling, we look deeply into their eyes to get our answer.

But, there is another portal into a person's soul - our hands. We can tell a lot about someone by simply observing the relative condition of their hands. Big, rough, gnarly ones, their skin often stained by the jobs they preform, are logically associated with working people. Those with long, slender fingers, and smooth skin are usually referred to as having delicate hands and indicate a lifestyle that does not require much physical labor. Most athletes have huge hands and, depending on their sport, carry the marks of their profession (have you ever seen a baseball catcher's hands?). A piano player's hands generally feature long fingers enabling them to reach the keys more easily. We often adorn them with rings and bracelets making their own statement. Others, like me, prefer projecting a simpler image by wearing nothing on their hands. But, we do make a statement with how they look, and, how we use them.

Whenever we meet someone, a new friend or old, in addition to looking them in the eyes, we extend our hand to meet theirs in a gesture of peace and acceptance. In essence, it becomes an indicator of our intentions.

In Western culture we present ourselves through a firm and hardy handshake. It is believed that we convey a sense of our self-worth by clutching another person's hand with authority and conviction. Extending our hand helps to provide a clue to our inner life. And, we expect the same from them. We often judge that person by the enthusiasm in which our gesture is received and returned.  The strength in our hand is perceived as a proxy for the fortitude in our souls. In a sense, it sends the message; we are worthy. By contrast, a weak handshake is often perceived to indicate a feeble personality.

And, our hands come in not only a huge variety of sizes, shapes, and conditions, they also have a range of abilities to convey a vast spectrum of emotions, too - as sublime as a Michelangelo brushstroke or as brutal as a Mike Tyson uppercut. We can make a fist with them and punch someone in the nose.  But, we can also use them to gently stroke someones hair or handle a fine paint brush and create a masterpiece. 

And, the message sent is so important that it can effect the future of our relationships.

When I was shooting a documentary in China in the early '90's, I noticed that whenever I attempted to shake a person's hand there, I received the proverbial dead fish. They would barely touch my hand, much less grab it. It was so obvious to me that I asked our translator if that it was, indeed, being done deliberately. Her answer was in the affirmative. She explained that in their culture giving up that much of oneself in an initial meeting was way to aggressive. It's a trust that can only be learned over the course of time.

Our hands can also provide a link to our ancestors. How many of us have said, they have the same hands as their mother or father? I know that when I look at mine, I see the same general shape and idiosyncrasies of my father's. I'm sure that others in my family feel the same way.

So, the eyes may indeed by the windows to the soul but, assuredly, our hands may be the door.

WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT IT. Worth Its Weight in Gold

It's worth its weight in gold.

. . is a phrase that virtually everyone knows and has probably used on more than one occasion. In fact, it is so often used that, as writers, we generally file it away under Hackneyed Phrases.

Personally, however, I still find it interesting and use the phrase - frequently. It usually refers to a useful and relatively obscure object whose function far outweighs its shelf value - think of some tool in your kitchen - something weird looking but has never failed in accomplishing the task it was designed to do. Various wine and can openers are certainly in this category. So, in a sense, it can be both whimsical, as well as functional.

Another interesting tidbit (at least in my mind), is the incredible value we put on gold. For most people, when they think of wealth, such as that had by a king, it usually means dripping in gold. It is a symbol of power and glory. Even religions keep their most valuable items in containers of pure gold. Egyptian Pharaohs were buried in sarcophagi made of it. Spanish Conquistadors slaughtered and enslaved entire Native populations in their relentless quest to have it. It is seen as the ultimate Status Symbol for the wealthy. We even call it a precious metal.

And, WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT IT - why?

Gold has some interesting characteristics, of course, that make it valuable. Part of that value is that it is not terribly abundant and takes great effort to procure it in nature. Also, because it is the least reactive of all metals, it will never tarnish or rust - obviously great traits to portray wealth and power, as well as commitment (wedding rings) and longevity. It has other useful traits such as its conductivity, too. Beyond that, however, there are other materials that, at least from a functionality standpoint, are much more valuable.

This brings us back to our kitchen implements that are worth their weight in gold. Let's use the lowly can opener and funky corkscrew as simple examples. You saw them in the Dollar Store and figured, what the heck - they're a buck each. What do I have to lose? Since that day you put them in your kitchen drawer, you've used them hundreds of times. And, still do. When was the last thing useful you did with gold - besides wear as an ornament?

I feel the same way about people - some of them may not glitter like gold. They may even be obscure or even funky. But, they are far more valuable than gold. In their own simple, effective way they make the world a better place for whomever they may encounter.

So, WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT IT - shouldn't we be saying, gold is worth its weight in can openers,  cork screws - and, people?

That is all. . . 

Today's MOZEN: Teflon No More

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As a 2nd generation American with deep roots in Sicily, I am very familiar with The Mafia and its tactics and traditions. EVERY Sicilian, regardless of it they were affiliated with it or not, has been effected by its ruthless ways. It is foolhardy to deny it. It has been part of Sicilian culture for centuries.

One of the things that makes its leaders, i.e. capos, so difficult to stop is their ability to control their empires without a DIRECT connection to the nefarious activities being committed by their so-called soldiers. The Don (often called  Godfather as a show of submission and respect) NEVER directly orders a murder. That is accomplished through well-calculated suggestions and innuendo. He will NEVER utter the words, "so and so must be killed." Instead he suggests in a private meeting "how much better their world would be without so and so." And, mysteriously, the deed is done.

John Gotti, the infamous Teflon Don had that moniker because he earned it. Everyone in law enforcement KNEW that he was ordering these killings. But, they could never tie him DIRECTLY to these crimes and prosecute him. Instead, they had to use specially crafted legislation (RICO*) to bring him down. He eventually died in prison. And, let's not forget the legendary mobster, Al Capone. EVERYONE knew that he ordered the infamous St. Valentine's Day Massacre, but they could never directly tie him to the crime. Instead, he was brought down through tax evasion laws. He also died in prison.

The Art of the Deal, if you will, with people like this is perfectly illustrated in the award winning film, "The Godfather". On of the most famous lines in the movie is when the godfather (Marlon Brando) utters, "I made him an offer he couldn't refuse". He never threatened violence directly. Instead, the mere suggestion of it was enough to make anyone capitulate.

So, it is with the latest round of Congressional Hearings on the impeachment of Donald J. Trump. Witness after reliable witness has sworn that even though they never heard the words directly from the President to hold aid to Ukraine until they did the President's personal/political bidding, they KNEW it was a direct order from Mr. Trump. This is the entire focal point of the bizarre Republican defense of the President - he never SAID it. But, it was perfectly clear to all of them that Mr. Trump is making them an offer they couldn't refuse. It was the proverbial horse's head in the bed image - do it or suffer the consequences.

It couldn't be more obvious. The Godfather and his cronies are running our Country. We've stopped them before - and, we will again.  Don't let him off the hook!!!

*Passed in 1970, the Racketeer Influenced and Corrupt Organizations Act (RICO) is a federal law designed to combat organized crime in the United States. It allows prosecution and civil penalties for racketeering activity performed as part of an ongoing criminal enterprise.

Today's MOZEN: Impeach NOW!

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Like millions of Americans, I have tuned into the current TV broadcast of the hearings on whether or not to impeach Donald J. Trump, the 45th President of the United States. The crux of the complaint against Mr. Trump is that he used his considerable influence to hold essential military aid to bully the president of Ukraine into conducting a public inquiry of alleged corruption committed in Ukraine by Trump's chief political rival, Joe Biden, and Biden's son, Hunter, before he would release the vital assistance to that country. This is the so-called Quid Pro Quo. I have another name for it: thuggery. This was done, obviously, to advance Mr. Trump's own political aspirations and, if proven, is considered an Impeachable Offense.

Now, as with most of us, I don't have the time to watch every minute of the hours-long procedure. And, I've tried to view it with as impartial a perspective that I can muster. I've had my suspicions as to how it might turn out but was still willing to listen to WHATEVER evidence was presented. However, I have now seen enough to be convinced of what I suspected all along: Donald J. Trump and his closest advisers operate this Country in the same fashion that Mr. Trump ran his various enterprises, i.e. like GANGSTERS and THUGS. This is what he knows and thus, this is what he does - the consequences be damned. Perhaps, he got away with it in business, but I'll be damned if we will let him get away with it while running OUR Country!

What is equally infuriating as the wanton greed of Mr. Trump and his henchmen are the Republican legislators who are spinning the damning testimony targeting the Trump Administration as a mere vendetta against their President and Party for their 2016 election victory. In fact, it's so outrageous that I find myself shaking my head in complete disbelief. The evidence is as shocking as it is coercive. When the ranking Republican, Devin Nunes (R- Ca.), opens his mouth to counter the compelling, and quite damning,  testimony of creditable witnesses like Ambassadors Volker and Sondland, Lt. Colonel Alexander Vindman, Dr. Fiona Hill, David Holmes, and others, ALL of whom had intimate knowledge of the affair, he sounds like a character from Shakespeare's Macbeth relating a tale told by an idiot full of sound and fury, signifying nothing.

Even though every political entity works in their own best interests, the Republican defense represents party loyalty at its worst. They have chosen allegiance to their political agenda rather than do what is necessary for the good of the Country - and, that is to remove a man who is no more than a thief, liar, bully, and thug from the honored position of the most powerful man in the world, i.e. The President of the United States.

IMPEACH NOW!!

Today's MOZEN: Speaking Truth to Power

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Make no mistake about it - I write provocative, controversial, and, perhaps, even contentious shit. At least, I hope that I do. Maybe, you've noticed I even swear a bunch, too. That's because I don't want people to just read. I want them to react. I want to get inside your head and walk around for awhile. I want you to respond.

And, with that in mind, I NEVER forget how fortunate we are to live in a Country that allows me to do this without fear of retribution or reprisal. I regularly attack President Trump and his administration for what I see as their ineptitude. I speak truth to power. And, I do so with vigor - because I CAN.

Despite Mr. Trump's ill-advised attacks on the media, I write this blog unfettered by his threats. No Secret Service inquires have come my way. No warnings have been issued by any governmental agency (not that they would stop me anyway). I continue to enjoy the freedom of expression guaranteed me by the First Amendment to the U.S. Constitution.

THIS is the freedom that makes America Great. Many have sacrificed everything to make it so. I honor them by my willingness to KEEP it so. We must remain vigilant and prepared to fight any and all who would deny us this right.

I am. Are YOU?

Today's MOZEN: The Measure of a Man

It is said that a man can be judged by the quality of his friends and associates -

- Michael Cohen           CONVICTED
Former Trump Attorney

- Michael Flynn             CONVICTED
Former Trump National Security Adviser

- Rick Gates                   CONVICTED
Former Trump Campaign Official

- Paul Manafort             CONVICTED
Former Trump Campaign Chairman

- George Papadopoulos  CONVICTED
Former Trump Adviser

- Roger Stone                  CONVICTED
Former Trump Adviser


I rest my case . . . 

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